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SkeeBall Anyone?



Last night Bill and I had a great time watching the Auburn Tigers move to Elite 8 status in the March Madness contest.  While watching the Auburn players effortlessly shoot  3 pointers I was reminded of years of playing SkeeBall at Rehoboth Beach, DE.  As a child, during my college days, in our dating life and as a Mom, I have always been the family reigning SkeeBall champion.  I would stand at the SkeeBall throw line and effortlessly sink one winner in after another.  Like the Tigers, the joy and elation were obvious.  Each 50 point shot gave me more inspiration and more confidence. Winning at sports games and routinely beating my brothers, Bill and my sons helped to define who I am.  I have always been an athletic person who loves a good challenge both on and off the court.

Last night, the Tar Heels were outplayed by the Tigers but in the defining moment when the high scoring Auburn player Okeke was severely injured the Tar Heels reminded us what playing sports is all about.  Each Tar Heels players took a moment to console Okeke.  They reminded us that playing sports teaches leadership skills, teamwork, communication skills and builds strong relationships.

All my SkeeBall opponents, some worthy, some not, hold a special place in my heart.  They each have taught me a thing or two about myself.  I learned each and every time that winning is wonderful but friendship is far more important.







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